Did you ever wonder where all the good ones went...? In actual fact, there's a sea of men out there waiting to meet you! If it doesn't quite feel that way it's just because you're not approaching it the right way… yet. It's perfectly ok, if you're not a fan of on-line dating (don't miss the blog on how to write a killer online dating profile at any age, if you do want to give this a try the winning way though). Single to soulmate after 40.